How Do You Prove a Mother Unfit in Virginia?

How Do You Prove a Mother Unfit in Virginia?

Child custody is one of the most contentious issues in a divorce. In most cases, both parents would want to get custody of their child. However, when determining custody, the court will always base their decision on the child’s best interests. 

Even when one parent is granted full custody, the other parent will most likely be given enough time to spend with their child as Virginia law requires the court to make sure that the child gets frequent and regular contact with both parents. 

However, in certain cases, the court will limit or reduce the interaction between a parent and child. This also happens when one party is deemed an unfit parent.

What is an Unfit Parent?

An unfit parent is one who is unable to provide proper care, guidance, and support to their child. They most likely won’t be granted custody by the court if the case is still active. If the unfit parent already has custody, they’re likely to lose it after the court obtains sufficient evidence that living with that parent is putting the child in harm’s way.

Proving that a mother is an unfit parent can be tough on both the child and the father. Sometimes, Child Welfare Services may need to intervene, especially if there are allegations of abuse or if there’s an ongoing investigation against the mother. 

If you believe the other parent of your child is unfit, consult a child custody lawyer to understand your rights and determine the best course of action.  

How Can a Mother Lose Custody of Her Child in Virginia?

The court will rely on several factors to determine whether a mother should be prevented from seeking or obtaining custody. These include the following:

  1. History of Child Abuse
    The court will look unfavorably on a mother that has a history of abusing her child. Child abuse charges are difficult to overcome in child custody proceedings. If the court has sufficient evidence supporting such charges, the mother will, at most, only get occasional visitation rights.
  2. History of Domestic Violence
    Physical abuse, both against the child or the father, can also be detrimental to the mother’s case in custody proceedings. It calls into question the mother’s ability to ensure the child’s safety. The court will most likely grant sole custody to the father, and only grant the mother visitation rights under strict monitoring.
  3. Emotional Abuse
    This charge is a lot more difficult to prove in court, but it is just as effective in removing the mother’s custodial rights. Some examples of emotional abuse are the following:

    • The mother constantly harasses or belittles her child
    • Parental alienation, or trying to manipulate the child into having negative feelings about their father
  4. Interfering with Visitation Rights
    The mother may also lose custodial rights if she consistently tries to interfere with the father’s visitations rights. Here are some examples:

    • Preventing the child from seeing their father
    • Excluding the father from activities or trips
    • Any other actions to sabotage the father’s attempts to see his children
  5. Neglect
    When a mother neglects to provide for her child in certain crucial areas such as their basic needs, access to healthcare, or access to education, they may also lose their custodial rights.
  6. Psychiatric Concerns
    The court may consider the mother a risk to the child if they’re suffering from an aggressive or unpredictable mental health condition. If it’s proven—through prescriptions or proof of therapy—that the mother is mentally unstable to parent her child, the court may remove custody.
  7. Substance Abuse or Addiction
    A mother who is struggling with addiction to drugs or alcohol may also get her custodial rights terminated, especially if the court determines that she is unreliable or presents a clear danger to her child.

What Evidence do I Need to Prove an Unfit Parent in Virginia?

If a parent is trying to establish that their spouse or ex-spouse is an unfit parent in court, they need to provide evidence to prove their allegations. Some examples of evidence that they can present in court are the following:

  • Testimony from witnesses about the parent’s behavior
  • Videos of incidents relating to the factors enumerated above
  • Physical evidence of abuse or neglect
  • Documents or files that support the allegations

It can be challenging to find evidence, but if you think you might have something, it’s worth bringing forward to your lawyer. All evidence must be gathered before a request to change custody is filed. 

Hire an Experienced Family Law Attorney Today

If you’re planning to file or in the middle of unfit parent proceedings, you’ll need to make tough choices that can permanently impact your child’s upbringing. You need to have a lawyer by your side who can advise you and make sure that your child’s best interests are protected.

The expert lawyers at Holcomb Law can represent you during the process and help support and prove your position. Contact us now at (757) 656-1000 to schedule a consultation.